Meet Our Staff

Wesley was born in Henryetta and has strong family roots in the community. The son of Rev. Michael and Jan VanMeter, Wesley graduated from Faith Christian Academy near Henryetta and went to University of Central Oklahoma, where he received his degree in Mortuary Science. Wesley also holds a minister's license and travels to India on occasion for missions work.

Wesley and his wife, Martha, have six beautiful daughters and five grandbabies.

He is committed to serving the community with dignity and compassion during a time of extreme difficulty. 

Wesley has worked in the funeral business in the Henryetta area since 1997.

Jimmy Dale Spurlock is a native of the Henryetta and Dewar communities. The youngest of four children, Jimmy was born December 25, 1957, in Henryetta to Billy J. and Patsy Spurlock, who were also lifelong residents of the Henryetta area. He graduated from Dewar High School class of 1976 and attended Oklahoma State University. Jimmy received his degree in Mortuary Science from the University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond.

With over forty years working in the funeral business, Jimmy is dedicated to his work in funeral service and supports many community efforts and charities. In 2009, along with partners Wesley VanMeter and Robert Owens, he opened Integrity Funeral Service in Henryetta.

Jimmy is a member of the United Pentecostal Church in Dewar, where he served as organist for many years.

Jimmy is married to Janice, who is employed as a registered nurse. He has one daughter, Tina Brittenham (married to Josh), and a grandson, Jameson Wade Brittenham.

Gerald was born in Okemah, Oklahoma, and grew up in Okmulgee. Born to Donald Edward and Marie Annette Thompson, he graduated from Okmulgee High School in 1989 and from OSU Okmulgee in 1992, receiving an Associate degree in Manufacturing Technology. 

Gerald's journey into the funeral industry began in 1991 when he became a Funeral Director's Assistant. His primary role was as a Prearrangement Counselor, where he provided compassionate assistance to those navigating the complex process of funeral preplanning. This early experience sparked a lifelong commitment to serving his community and helping families during their most challenging times.

In 2022, Gerald took a significant step forward in his career by enrolling in Mortuary School. He graduated with his diploma from the Dallas Institute of Funeral Service in Dallas, Texas, in August 2023. This formal education and his practical experience equipped Gerald with the knowledge and skills to excel in his chosen profession.

Throughout his career, Gerald has been recognized for his dedication, professionalism, and the deep empathy he extends to everyone he serves. He is not just a funeral director; he has the desire to be a pillar of support for grieving families, guiding them with kindness and understanding. His work is not merely a job, but a calling.

Beyond his professional life, Gerald is a devoted father to his two children and a doting grandfather to his grandson. His family is his pride and joy; he cherishes every moment spent with them. 

Gerald is also an active member of the First Baptist Church of Dewar, Oklahoma. 

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